I have been seeing this guy that I knew back in high school , but he has a...

I have been seeing this guy that I knew back in high school , but he has a girl in another state. He was honest about that from jump and at first we were just friends chillin & wastin time together.

We weren't looking to be together but things just turned out that way. He had decided to tell her and she comes up with the ol "I'M PREGNANT" thang. Now he says that even though he does have love FOR her, he isn't sure if he wants to spend his life WITH her; BUT he says that he wants to do the right thing and be a full time father to his child.

He says that this girl WILL NOT let him see the child if he leaves her. My point is that if he is a good father, she should not keep him from his child.. LET ME SAY that it wasn't like he went out cheatin and stuff because he isn't a playa... our relationship really, truly did just EVOLVE between us. He claims to be in love with me...

My question, Aalize, is: A. Should I stick around to see what he decides?

B. Leave him alone and let him do the fake family thang?

C.Try to talk him out of making a huge mistake by marrying someone out of duty instead of love? GIVE IT TO ME STRAIGHT!!! I CAN TAKE IT!

First of all, how does boyfriend know that this child (if there is a child) is his? Secondly, if the child is his, marriage for the wrong reason is not smart.

If the child is indeed his, she can not stop him from visiting him/her. Paternity test, honey. Paternity test.

Let him know that you are willing to stand by him if he wants you to, but he needs to chill until he is 100% certain the child (if there is a child) is his.