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My Husband wants me to things with him sexually that I am not completely...
My Husband wants me to things with him sexually that I am not completely comfortable with. I would be more willing to do these things if he would stop pressuring me about it.
Every time he says something, it makes me feel dirty and that is not how I want it to be. This morning he just told me to "forget it" and he left for work mad. How do I tell him that I want to fulfil his desires, but he needs to stop pressuring me? ( I did tell him that but that is when he left mad.) If you're not comfortable with it, don't do it. Husband or no husband. However, it appears that you are uncomfortable with him asking/demanding these things.
You said: "I would be more willing to do these things if he would stop pressuring me about it."
Since you've already told him how you feel, try showing him. When he comes home from work have a nice, warm shower waiting for him. Have scented candles in the bedroom. Have soft music playing.
Now, if and ONLY if you are comfortable --- proceed to please your Husband.
Notice to readers: If it is at all possible, never let any person leave your presence angry. You never know when he/she will be on the road of no return.