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I was newly de-virginized by my fiancée and I didn't bleed or anything. We had sex 2 days ago and it hurt a lot, I thought maybe we we're rougher or something. I bled A LOT and still am... it's not even time for my period.

I'm on tri-levelen (the pill) and this other antibiotic, doxycycline that is supposed to affect the pill. I'm wondering if that is why I'm bleeding, or if we were too rough and really hurt me inside or if it just could be a recurring yeast infection with bad timing.

I cant just go to the doctor since I'm only 17 and my parents would be the ones to take me and they'd find out and all.

Is it serious enough to HAVE to go to the doctor or can I just wait it out and it'll just stop bleeding? I'm really scared here.. please answer a.s.a.p.

If you're bleeding internally, you should see a doctor immediately.

You do not know what is wrong, and the longer you wait, the worse it could become. Please see a doctor ASAP. This may be serious, and hopefully your parents will understand.

Even if they don't understand, the consequences could not possibly be worse than not seeing a doctor. I almost lost my life due to internal bleeding. In my case it was an etopic pregnacy. Don't guess, speculate or wonder. See a doctor today.

Notice to readers: If you are bleeding internally, do not write me, see a doctor immediately. That way you'll be around to write me another day! :)