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Well this is my first time doing this. My boyfriend and I are having a lot of...

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Well this is my first time doing this. My boyfriend and I are having a lot of problems. Every time we argue he gets real angry and begins to get real verbal with me. It really hurts me. I ask him to stop and he says he will but he never changes, and it's hurting me emotionally. What should I say to him?

Stop arguing! Two people can disagree and discuss with out throwing verbal ammunition at each other.

Another thing, you said, "I ask him to stop and he says he will but he never changes."

Here's an appropriate quote for you:

When you can't change the people around you, change the people around you.

Translation: Stop giving him so many chances. A man is only as good as his word, and if his word ain't shyt ... you know the rest. Peace.