When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he would come really quickly...

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he would come really quickly. Now we have sex almost every day, but it's always in the same bed, always him on top, then my legs on his shoulders, then doggy style, then cigarette.

Lately he hasn't been able to come, and he says it's because he thinks he's getting bored. He suggested I be more aggressive, but I'm not sure how to do so. Any ideas on how to spice things up? We're both pretty adventurous.

So ... you wanna get funky, eh? Yes Miss Lady, sometimes it is good for the female to be a little aggressive, to add a lil' spice to the scenario.

Now, the next time it's time ... try blindfolding your man. After you blindfold him, (try using a silk scarf for starters) lead him to a different bed, or the couch for some sweet caressing. Nibble here, lick there... you may even want to try some flavored oils or creams. Proceed to mount him as he lies on the bed.

Gitty up, baby! Ride your man like you're a cowgirl and he's your pony! For a change of pace, unmount him, lead him to a chair ... mount him, again!

Never let him remove the blindfold, but let his hands roam all over your breast ... place wet kisses all over his face as the two of you "do that thang" in ecstasy!