I have a man, been w/him almost 4 years. Almost every holiday he's got a beef...

I have a man, been w/him almost 4 years. Almost every holiday he's got a beef with me. My birthday was Monday and he called himself being mad and didn't even SAY "Happy Birthday", much less anything else. Still hasn't said anything but calls me to redo his resume!! I don't know if it's coincidence that he "conveniently" has a beef or not. I also have affection/emotional issues with him (not getting enough from him but always giving it). What do you think? You don't have to be gentle.

I think your "man" should be labeled your so-called man. Gyrl, he is plain cheap! Don't let his ass get away with it! It's not a coincidence that he has beef with you on holidays and important days --- the beef doesn't just happen --- it's planned.

Think back to the beginning of this relationship. You know --- the way it starts out is usually the way it ends up. Speaking of résumé's, it's high time you update yours --- your Romantic Résumé.

Old habits die hard, and it seems that he is in the habit of running game on you. Later for that, aiight? Valentine's day is right around the corner. If he get beef with you on or about 2-14-99, don't just kick him to the curb, Drop Kick him to the curb!

Oh yeah, regarding the affection/emotional issues, relationships are give/receive --- not give/give. 'Ya heard?