My marriage is going down hill. I have depression, bi-polar disorder and some...

My marriage is going down hill. I have depression, bi-polar disorder and some more stuff. My husband can not get over the past. I made some big mistakes that I regret financially, but I can not re-track what I did. I learned from my mistakes and I would like to go forward with him.

He is always changing on me. One minute he's alright with it, and the next I am hearing about it. What should I do?

What is the past that your husband can't get over? According to the information you provided, I offer you this advice. The two of you made vows for better or worse.

Regardless of the financial mistakes you've made in the past --- the past is the past. No, you can not erase the past, but if you have forgiven yourself, he should also. Almost everyone deserves a second chance.

Talk to your husband, and consider consulting with a marriage counselor. Lay all of your cards on the table. Ask your husband exactly what is it that the two of you can do to move on.

Depression and bipolar disorder are an illness. Inform your husband that you need him to be there for you.

Here are a couple of web sites which offer extensive information regarding Bipolar disorder.

For information about clinical research trials, visit Bipolar.com Bipolar disorder chat room. A moderated chat with a doctor is scheduled on the first Tuesday of every month from 10-11pm ET/7-8pm PT.

Good luck to you, let me know how things work out.