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I'm a 15 years old and I have a 33 year old boyfriend who is also my Spanish...
I'm a 15 years old and I have a 33 year old boyfriend who is also my Spanish teacher.
Nobody knows about this except my close friends. I can never tell my parents about this. My boyfriend is married with 2 kids and obviously he doesn't care about them. He keeps pressuring me to have sex, I've told him no and that I'm not ready, and he says, I don't want to lose you.
Sometimes he gets forceful on me when I don't want to make out with him, and one time he sexually assaulted me. My friends tell me that I should dump him because he should not be doing this to me. I don't know if I can because every time that I've come close to it, I always ended up kissing him and never told him about it.
I can't get over these feelings I have for him. I always get out of 7th period to be with him in his classroom and we do intimate stuff. Sometimes he calls my house just to hear my voice. If my parents ever found out about this they'd kill me.
Am I in danger by being with an older man, and should I tell my parents or the principal what's going on? What should I do? Does age really matter? Does it matter if I'm dating my Spanish teacher who's cheating on his wife? Please help me!
Tell your parents, and/or the principal immediately. You are a child, he is a grown man. The one time that he sexually assaulted you, did it include intercourse? If yes, he RAPED you and should be arrested.
He is a married man. There is no future for you in this situation. Believe it or not, he is using you.
Here is the definition of --- Rape:
(Source: Microsoft Encarta) (criminal law) , in criminal law, the act of sexual intercourse with a woman without her consent or with a minor. Court decisions differ as to definition of lack of consent; generally, for the crime to constitute rape, the woman must resist, unless she is incapable of resistance because of mental or physical weakness or deterred from it by fear of immediate bodily harm.
A woman of less than a certain age, which varies in different states of the U.S. from 13 to 18 years and in England is 13 years, is considered incapable of giving her consent , and intercourse with such a woman, with or without her actual consent, is termed statutory rape.
Ignorance of the woman's age does not relieve the individual charged with statutory rape from criminal liability.
Rape is a felony punishable by imprisonment in most states and by life imprisonment in England.