I live with a man and we have a four year old daughter. He also has three...

I live with a man and we have a four year old daughter. He also has three children that live with us. I've been asking him when we'll get married for three years and he never wants to discuss it, (why should he pay for the milk when he's been getting it free for five years?) I'm fed up and ready to go. I love him, and I use to say he loved me, but now I'm not so sure. If he loved me he'd marry me. Am I wrong to feel this way? We've built an entire life together, do I just give this all up? Other than marriage we are happy together. I just feel so fed up and used. Help!!

Girlfriend, don't let that little band of gold ruin your good thing. Let me explain. You said, "other than the marriage, we are happy together." You also said "I'm fed up and ready to go. I love him, and I use to say he loved me, but now I'm not so sure."

Has he ever said that he truly loves you? Don't you dare jeopardize your happiness for anything. Please remember, many marriages end in divorce. If what you have is good, perhaps for the time being, it will be wise to leave well enough alone.