I've been dating my lady for 4 months. She's cute and sexy. She's 39 and has...

I've been dating my lady for 4 months. She's cute and sexy. She's 39 and has been divorced for 17 years. Over that span she had several relationships. She likes to be wined and dined , therefore, I'm spending a lot on her.

She stills consider her old boyfriends friends and some are still in contact with her. Because of all of those past relationships I'm a little afraid to become emotionally attached. I went away for the Christmas holidays and when I got back she told me that she had went to the movies with an old friend. Please advise.

The fact that you've written this request proves that you're somewhat emotionally attached. I'd advise you to not concern yourself with her old boyfriends, because it's out with the old and in with the new!

There's nothing wrong with remaing friends with past mates, and the fact that she informed you that she went to the movies with an old friend is admirable. She didn't have to say a thing.

Nobody wants to be hurt in the game of love, but hey, we've gotta take chances. Roll the dice, if you crap out ... shake 'em up, and roll 'em again and again and again ...

until you hit your point, baby.