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I just met this wonderful girl over icq (instant messenger) today. She seems...

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I just met this wonderful girl over icq (instant messenger) today. She seems perfect for me and she tells me the same about me. I haven't lied to her about anything, and I just sent her roses for valentine's day.

I was wondering if this relationship could really work. She doesnt live that far away and we are both the same age. I was even thinking of transfering to her college next semester.

Will you calm your ass down?! Damn! If you calm down, perhaps we can talk for a min.

That's better ... don't you realize that most internet, chatroom, icq, etc... initial meetings are wonderful? They're based on our hopes of what could be, what we wish would be. We must realize that the people we meet online are the exact people that someone else has met offline. People are people.

Getting back to your question; yes, there is a possibility that this could work out for you and her ... and there's a possibility that it won't. Either way, you simply must slooow down. There's an old saying that goes something like this:

If you haven't the time to do it right the first time, how will you ever find time to do it over?

Stop. look, listen and you just might learn some thangs! Whenever you give too much ... too soon, you usually get, got.