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My boyfriend Scott of 5 months broke up with me nearly 2 months ago. He's my...

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My boyfriend Scott of 5 months broke up with me nearly 2 months ago. He's my third serious boyfriend, but he's also the one I have the most feelings about. My feelings for him are so strong, it often scares me. His reason for breaking up with me is he wanted to be single.

My ex best friend once stole my 2nd boyfriend away from me. It caused a huge fight between us because she betrayed my trust immensely. I finally forgave her about 6 months after he and her broke up. Now Scott and her are dating. So not only has he lied to me, but she has also betrayed my trust for a second time. If and when they break up, I would not give her the time of day - EVER! But I still love Scott now just as much as I loved him when we were together. What do I do? My friends tell me that her and Scott are starting to get serious. I was his first partner at intercourse.

What do I do if he asks for me back? I want him to know how much he has hurt me. Yet, I hate them both so much for not caring about my feelings.

Miss gyrlfriend, sister girl! Snap out of it! If he asks you back tell his cheating ass to take a long walk off of a short cliff!

He doesn't care about you feelings, so don't bother trying to press the issue. He broke up with you, so he actually did nothing wrong except lie about the reason he broke up with you. Feelings change. Deal with it.

You've been betrayed twice by your so-called friend, and if I were you, I would not forgive her again. It's a new year, consider getting a new friend and a new boyfriend. Believe me, As time goes on (and it will) you'll stop depending on others to love you, begin to love yourself and receive the love you deserve from a mate that compliments you.