My boyfriend does not kiss me or go down on me...he used to when we first met...

My boyfriend does not kiss me or go down on me...he used to when we first met (1 year ago) but only 1 year later all I get now is a peck once in a while and there is absolutely no necking or kissing during lovemaking.

He says it is laziness... I say I need to kiss as part of my needs during lovemaking. I have spoke with him several times and don't even want to bring up the subject any more because it causes much tension. Is this really a matter of laziness or lack of passion on my boyfriend's part for me?

He'll only go down on me if I practically beg and that certainly takes any enjoyment out of it for me. It's been several months now since I've had a good long tongue wrapping kiss and haven't felt anything between my legs (except for...) in just as long....I need some objective advice please!

If he isn't kissing, or going down on you, he may be kissing and going down on someone else. You don't need advice, you need a backbone. Settle for less, and you'll get less every time.

Don't sit there afraid to bring this important issue up. Pressure breaks pipes. Gyrl, you've got to break it down for his ass. Let him know, either he will kiss you, and go down on you (without you having to beg him) or you will dump his ass and hook up with a man who will. WHOOMP! There it is!