My boyfriend & I have been together for 9 months. I don't understand him at...

My boyfriend & I have been together for 9 months. I don't understand him at all. He is always accusing me of messing around when there is not enough time in the day for me to mess around.

I love him much but I am tired of the constant accusing. What do I do? I am getting to the point now where as I am not happy. He is driving me away. Do I hang in there & try to make it work or throw in the towel?

One of two things is happening. Either boyfriend is extremely insecure in this relationship *OR* boyfriend is extremely guilty because he is messing around. You should not be unhappy in a relationship, that defeats the purpose.

Don't throw in the towel just yet. I'd suggest that you have a heart to heart talk with your man in a neutral location ... NOT the bedroom. Explain to him that you love him and that you are not cheating on him. Discuss where the two of you presently are in this relationship and where you'd like to see it go. If his vision for the future of this relationship isn't similar to yours, there may not be a future for this relationship. Don't worry, fret or get upset over this issue because what will be --- will be.