Hi, I am French. My girlfriend, whom I've met 3 weeks ago is American. I'm...

Hi, I am French. My girlfriend, whom I've met 3 weeks ago is American. I'm very fond of her. The problem is that she doesn't want to have sex(penetration) before wedding, although she proposes to do things like oral pleasure. I don't understand her at all, and I think our relationship can't be well balanced.

Sex is certainly not the only thing which matters for me, but it's something that is needed as a couple. I tried to explain that to her, but she doesn't understand me. Sleeping with a girl that I desire and not being allowed to make love with her is driving me crazy! What do you think I should do?

Stop sleeping with her until you marry her, duh!

Perhaps you have no intention of marrying her. Well, she has made it crystal clear honey. No wedding ring, no sex. You must either put out, (for a wedding ring) or push on.